should I cut my losses and end the relationship

[shyturnip]

I've been seeing someone for about 4 months now. Been taking it slow, see each other once a week.

But I am beginning to feel like he's not that into me.

First of all, we hardly ever go out. It's usually Saturday night telly and a takeaway.

He never plans. Just phones late in the week to see if I'm free at the weekend.

I'm beginning to think he just wants to have sex and a cuddle on a Saturday night and forgets about me during the week.

I do like him a lot. There's lots to like. He's funny and good company, we get on well and have a laugh. Plenty in common and the conversation never dries up.

But I feel like we're more FWB than in a proper relationship with a potential future and coupledom.

Should I cut my losses and end it now before one of us (me) gets hurt?

I think you gave it an honourable 4 months to see how it went, you spoke to him honestly, your sanity is something to be well protected and you hunger for more excitement than Mrboringarse can give you is really important.

Shall we have another or would a be better?

Thanks Betty. I'm surprised at how much I miss him. And how gutted I feel. It's strange. I think I really loved him. But he didn't love me.