I am very confused. I live with my partner and have a 5 year old daughter together. When I was pregnant with my daughter a lot of things happenEd. He was never around, he moved house a bit further than I lived and he became distant and was always talking about the bad things I did nothing good. I caught him on a dating website were we met when I was 7 months pregnant looking for a girlfriend and another bombshell I discovered around the same time he had a wife and 3 kids living somewhere and he denied when I asked him and then he said he was not with her anymore and out of the 3 children only 1 is his. When we argue he can go for 2 weeks or more without talking to me now 5 years later. I discovered some pictures last year when he had gone to to see the 1 daughter he claims is his, they went for a photo shoot with ex wife and took picture with kids and there were other 2 where himself and his wife had taken together with him with him holding her waist and with their heads together. When i confronted him he said he was doing it for the kids etc. I'm now getting pissed and I think he is still with his so called ex wife and a lot of things have happened over the years and I have lost my hair due to stress and I'm only 29. He lies a lot, I want to get a mortgage and he seems not to be interested in saving up with me. He works day and nights on weekends and he works all the nights and I had to beg him for a day off a few months ago which he started having Monday night off. He is not interested in paying bills if allowed.he dont buy clothes for our daughter. I do the food shopping. I rely on friends to help me with childcare and they are very good. I'm at the verge of finishing this relationship off for good.. I nearly finished off with him 3 weeks ago and we dont speak much. My daughter don't ask much about him when he is not here on weekends and she even said once I look after her more than her dad. I don't know if I should just pack my bags and run away with my daughter. I don't know what to do.. all the trauma I have suffered all these years with him. My question is what would anyone in this situation do. I'm confused