Been seeing him 18 months.
Went over on the Friday night, didn't stay over - my choice.
Stayed on the Saturday instead. Woke on Sunday morning and the first thing that came into focus was a concealer stick on his dressing table. I hadn't noticed it Friday despite being in the bedroom.
His explanation was it was found in an old jacket pocket and itvwas from about 4 years ago. But I've never known a man scratching 50 use concealer to cover a bad spot - I decided to accept the explanation and be a bit cautious about trusting him fully.
Last night at dinner, he deliberately caused an argument and despite me saying I didn't like the direction the conversation was going, he prodded until he got the full aggro he wanted. I was accused of not trusting him and monitoring him on FB - because I pointed out he ignored a message for 3 hours - and that related to finishing a phone call he'd started and then his battery went dead, yet I could see he was active.
Went over today to try to resolve last nights horrible argument and he's saying he needs time to calm down and reflect after a disappointing evening - 3/4 of the evening we're loving and bloody glorious.
Am I stupid?
I think I am and I suspect the argument last night was to get space for the concealer stick owner tonight with no calls.
It's driving me crazy. To the point where I'm starting to want to drive over there just to bloody catch him at it and know that I was right.
But of course, I could be very very wrong.
I'm sure the relationship is done - he has lied and does lie. But, I'd love some proper proof.
Help...