My passive aggressive and now posibley now financially controlling husband is lying about our mortgage payments. I was recently made redundant and asked him once again if we could go through our finances jointly. I have previously paid a set amount by s/o each month into his account to contribute. I have always suspected however that he felt he had more control over our disposable income because he works full time and it would be left in his account at the end of the month. The new spreadsheet clearly states our income and spend for each month and for Jan and Feb he has 742 by the mortgage. However, I have online access to our mortgage and can see he has only paid 104 for each month. I am confused and angry at the same time but don't want to call him out on this as I have been thinking about ending my marriage and this may be the final straw. I want to think a bit more but needed to rant somewhere !!!!
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