Tinder

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I need a bit of advice. I had made the decision after 13 years of marriage that I wanted to leave. No love, intimacy etc etc. I told my dh and he understood, said he wanted to try again etc etc. I know that this won't work. I've felt like this for a long time.
Anyway at work the other day a girl that I work with came to speak to me and told me she had seen his picture and profile on Tinder.
He denied it. My question is and I probably know the answer, he has to be lying right??? There is no other way his picture would be in there. It's a selfie quite obviously and taken within the last month I think.
Any thoughts would be great!

I have lots of empathy, but only when a situation deserves it. I also haven't had a reality bypass. Come on mumsnet to ask for opinions, read and move on. This is mine.

Not quite
Op informs the h marriage is over, he accepts this due to op having no feelings/marriage being over.
H has already made steps to move on and replace op.
What exactly does the op want? A time to mourn a dead marriage? A period of nothing happening out of respect?
The marriage is over, op has confirmed she is not bitter or has any jealously towards h moving on, so what exactly does op want?

Montane, OP accepts your views. What op doesn't accept is the way you talk to people. It's not kind and not deserved. But thanks for the input. I am not a bitter person so I wish you well and hope that if a situation ever occurs in your life that someone is kinder to you!