Can I ask what you think about white lies? My very new date - 3 months - is, I feel, far too honest and hurts my feelings when he could avoid it. For example, I cooked for him for the next day when I wasn't going round. He told me that evening it didn't look very appetising and went to his friends to eat instead. He sent a photo of some chocolate he brought me for next week. Then he said he'd eaten it because he was hungry. I said I looked a mess first thing in the morning, he agreed. Such tiny things I know, and having been with a prolific lier I don't condone dishonesty, but surely white lies to spare someone's feelings aren't bad? Or is that the start of a slippery slope?