Son met new man well too early!

[SammieSalmon]

Hi hope everyone is ok! Ive been seeing a new man for about six weeks. Last Saturday i was having a party at mine and he was there. My friend had my son and decided to bring him back to my house so he could go to bed and she could join dh at the party! So my son was introduced to my new man without planning ! New man was fine and took it in his stride and i put my son to bed. Everythings fine since but i feel like my stupid friend didnt think and i was not able to introduce them properly and on my terms.

You'll be ok. Your son won't remember him and either your new man has a problem with single mums or he doesn't; a chance meeting with your son would not have put him off.

Good lord.. He's a baby at 13 months. I thought he was at least 6.

It's just a big deal for me to introduce someone to ds. At least I don't introduce him to every Tom Dick and Harry

But your friend put him to bed, did she not? He didn't stay up partying with your boyfriend, did he? Mystified as to what the actual problem is

Thanks for all your views

I'd be a bit pissed off with my friend if she was meant to be keeping your ds overnight but then decided to bring him back. Unless he was ill or something? I know everyone is going to tell me how entitled I am now though!

Good grief he's a baby. He wouldn't know him from Adam or Mary!

You are hugely over reacting. A baby of 13 months meets many people and he has no idea of your relationship with any of them.

Chill out fgs

I understand your shock at your friend turning up with your little guy when you least expect it. Bit mean really if she had promised to keep him. It's like your two different world's colliding before you are ready for it. Nothing you can do now. No harm is done so just move on.