This is my first post. I am just looking some advice on a complicated issue. I began a relationship with a guy last year. He says he is separated but he still lives in the same house as his wife. They have separate bedrooms and I've seen him take selfies at all times of the night and morning when I text and he does seem to be in his own bed.
The reason he has not left the family home is cause his wife was pregnant and she gave birth 5 months ago and he has been fighting over custody rights since then. He has shown me text messages between himself and his wife and they are clearly at loggerheads. There are also lawyers involved on both sides. It is still annoying me that he hasn't moved out, does this seem legit? He says that he can't move out until he gets proper custody rights of his child and that will take a while longer and potentially have to go to court.
I am getting a bit tired of waiting tho. He has told me that he expects it to get sorted in the next month but I am concerned that I am wasting my time with him, as there is no actual finish line in sight. There is no doubt that he and the wife are not still together, as I've seen the some of the lawyers letters.
I do love him and I think he loves me too, and don't want to give up the relationship but am interested to see what other people think I should do.