Hi M's would love your take on this one please ... I left DH on A trial separation five months ago, after discovering he had been sleeping with prostitutes. The idea was that we would seek counselling, date and he would prove to me how important I was to him and then we would make a decision as to whether we could make a go of it or not.
Every time we go our separate ways after spending time together he gets upset and asks me to go back and whilst he says the right things I don't really feel like he means it.
This week I discovered that he had bought two valentines cards, one for me and the second one which says something like "I have dirty dreams about you" I intend to keep schtum about this and then on Valentine's Day, ask him how many cards he sent. If he says one, then that will be the final nail in the coffin of our relationship.
I guess on reading what I've just written I don't even need you to give me the answer because in my heart I know what I need to do, difficult as it is, I guess I'm just curious do you think he has a girlfriend, lining up the next one just in case I move on, or something else?