Any advice is greatly welcomed as I am at my wits end. My other halfs ex has decided to have a hate campaign against me and my 3 children. I have been with boyfriend for nearly 2 years and getting married in Sept. We are both in our 40's. I have 3 children from previous (10,13,17) and he has 2 (6,11). Everyone gets on fine in our house. my children have accepted his children and vice versa. The problem is his ex. They have been split for 6 years and he has had continuous problems, she stops him seeing his children, wont let him take them on holiday and is generally an abusive liar. They have gone to mediation and all is good then out of nowhere, she stops him seeing the children. We have now started the route of obtaining a court order. However, this does not stop her harrassment and vile names she calls me and my children. She has accused all 3 of my children of being violent towards her children, even taking the youngest to the Drs as she bruised her leg whilst playing with the other children. She is constantly bad mouthing me to her children and then denying it all and blaming her children. She says the children lie and it is them calling names etc. She completely manipulates her children and I find this heartbreaking that a mum could be so bitter that she uses her own children in her little game. This all sounds very minor, which i guess it is, but it is causing upset for me and my children as all we have done is be welcoming. I treat her children no different of mine. They have pocket money, new clothes when needed, they have cuddles and love and i Find it so upsetting that a grown woman could be so spiteful and bitter. I know it is not the childrens fault but I am starting to dread them coming over as there is always some sort of drama from their mum. I have always ignored her and have never got into discussions with her as I have no need opr desire too. I feel she is trying to make things so difficult for her ex but is hurting her children in the process. Any advice?????