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Play fighting

35 replies

Kaw85 · 01/02/2017 10:47

Hey guys just need advise. I started seeing a guy, pay his rent for him and basically do everything for him after a month I felt I couldn't trust him. He was messaging loads of girls etc. Got really funny about any make friends I have. I have come from a relationship with 2 beautiful little ones from my previous relationship and I thought this guy was perfect as he has a child too.

Well I questioned him.he needed it but wanted me to still be his friend and me to still stay over etc. Now we get on really well but he has started play fighting to the point he is really hurting Me with loads of bruises of hit back but playfully where as he gets harder. We stopped having sex also as I was getting confused. For a month but twice now we have after play fighting then him saying it's a one off. He doesn't want me dating but doesn't want to be with me.

I just need advise what to do as I never had so many bruises from him play fighting and he'll also do wrestling moves on me. What is he wants????

OP posts:
Thinkingofausername1 · 01/02/2017 19:19

Get this man away from you and your children. He is abusing you. Sad

squishee · 01/02/2017 19:30

What the hell? Get rid, fast.

Offred · 01/02/2017 19:39

He is abusive.

Stop giving him money.

Stop talking to him.

Offred · 01/02/2017 19:39

(Do the freedom programme)

Kaw85 · 01/02/2017 20:42

Thank you everyone I have cut all ties now I am not putting up with this. I was just very stupid he seemed really nice etc.

OP posts:
YouHadMeAtCake · 01/02/2017 20:46

Fucking hell OP, he saw you coming didn't he. Get rid of him and get some self respect. Why would you pay for a man you have just met? I wonder about some people when i read stuff like this I really do. Hmm

MadMags · 01/02/2017 20:48

Seriously?

You need to work on your standards. Nothing about him sounds nice. Not one thing.

AnyFucker · 01/02/2017 21:26

Ate you going to start paying the rent of the next bloke who seems "nice"?

CookieLady · 01/02/2017 21:31

I'm horrified that you let him manipulate you so much. I don't mean this in a nasty way but I really strongly urge to get some counselling. Your radar of what is acceptable in a relationship is way off base.

magoria · 02/02/2017 07:45

Do you think you need some counselling to find out why you think you deserve this sort of treatment?

It is so far from normal.

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