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Calling all literary aficionados

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wideboy26 · 30/01/2017 12:29

Tomorrow is my wedding anniversary. It will be 41 years. I've bought a card for my wife without a message because this year I'd like to include a quotation from literature or poetry about the nature of love. However, I'm stuck! I'm looking for something akin to "The quality of mercy is not strained" that reflects the depth and qualities of long term true love. I'm only looking for about 4 lines max and I've tried google and an anthology of favourite poems, but haven't found anything that hits the right note. Could anybody with a better knowledge of English literature than mine help please? All suggestions gratefully received.

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uglyswan · 30/01/2017 14:13

You have excellent taste, OP Grin! Happy anniversary!

Pallisers · 30/01/2017 14:19

happy anniversary

from ee cummings.

i carry your heart with me(i carry it in
my heart)i am never without it(anywhere
i go you go,my dear;and whatever is done
by only me is your doing,my darling)
i fear
no fate(for you are my fate,my sweet)i want
no world(for beautiful you are my world,my true)
and it’s you are whatever a moon has always meant
and whatever a sun will always sing is you

MommaGee · 30/01/2017 14:20

Love is a temporary madness, it erupts like volcanoes and then subsides. And when it subsides, you have to make a decision. You have to work out whether your roots have so entwined together that it is inconceivable that you should ever part.

TheNaze73 · 30/01/2017 20:55

Beautiful suggestions, especially DameVanillas Wink

carben · 30/01/2017 21:22

Love is friendship caught fire; it is quiet, mutual confidence, sharing and forgiving. It is loyalty through good and bad times. It settles for less than perfection, and makes allowances for human weaknesses. Love is content with the present, hopes for the future, and does not brood over the past. It is the day-in and day-out chronicles of irritations, problems, compromises, small disappointments, big victories, and working toward common goals. If you have love in your life, it can make up for a great many things you lack. If you do not have it, no matter what else there is, it is not enough.

By Laura Hendricks

DameVanillaSugar · 30/01/2017 21:58

Hendricks???? GinGinGin

DameVanillaSugar · 30/01/2017 21:58

Why, thank you Naze Wink

another20 · 31/01/2017 11:13

What is Love - passage from The Velveteen Rabbit...

“What is REAL?” asked the Rabbit one day, when they were lying side by side near the nursery fender. “Does it mean having things that buzz inside you – and a stick out handle?” “REAL isn’t how you are made,” said the Skin Horse – “It’s a thing that happens to you. When a child loves you for a long, long time – not just to play with – but REALLY loves you, then you become real.” “Does it hurt?” asked the rabbit. “Sometimes,” said the skin horse – for he was always truthful “When you are REAL, you don’t mind being hurt.” “Does it happen all at once, like being wound up” he asked – “or bit by bit?” “It doesn’t happen all at once,” said the skin horse. – “You become. It takes a long time. That’s why it doesn’t often happen to people who break easily – who sharp edges, or have to be carefully kept. Generally, by the time you are REAL, – most of your hair has been loved off – your eyes drop out – you get loose in the joints and very shabby. But these things don’t matter at all, because, once you are REAL you can’t be ugly, except to people who don’t understand.” “I suppose you are REAL?” said the Rabbit. And then he wished he had not said it – for he thought the skin horse might be sensitive – But the skin horse only smiled. “The Boy’s Uncle made me REAL,” he said. “That was a great many years ago – but once you are REAL you can’t become unreal again.”

Author: Margery Williams (1881-1944),

I love this bit ..."most of your hair has been loved off – your eyes drop out – you get loose in the joints and very shabby. But these things don’t matter at all, because, once you are REAL you can’t be ugly"

Dawndonnaagain · 31/01/2017 11:20

Stone Walls do not a prison make,
Nor iron bars a cage,
Minds innocent and quiet take
That as an hermitage.
If I have freedom in my love
And in my soul am free,
Angels alone that soar above
Enjoy such liberty.

Richard Lovelace.

Dawndonnaagain · 31/01/2017 11:25

ALL Kings, and all their favorites,
All glory of honors, beauties, wits,
The Sun it selfe, which makes times, as they passe,
Is elder by a yeare, now, then it was
When thou and I first one another saw:

All other things, to their destruction draw,
Only our love hath no decay;
This, no to morrow hath, nor yesterday,
Running it never runs from us away,
But truly keepes his first, last, everlasting day.

Two graves must hide thine and my coarse,
If one might, death were no divorce.
Alas, as well as other Princes, wee,
(Who Prince enough in one another bee,)
Must leave at last in death, these eyes, and eares,

Oft fed with true oathes, and with sweet salt teares;
But soules where nothing dwells but love
(All other thoughts being inmates) then shall prove
This, or a love increased there above,
When bodies to their graves, soules from their graves remove.

And then wee shall be throughly blest,
But wee no more, then all the rest;
Here upon earth, we'are Kings, and none but wee
Can be such Kings, nor of such subjects bee.
Who is so safe as wee? where none can doe

Treason to us, except one of us two.
True and false feares let us refraine,
Let us love nobly, and live, and adde againe
Yeares and yeares unto yeares, till we attaine
To write threescore: this is the second of our raigne.

The Anniversarie
John Donne.

(Might have studied the metaphysicals many moons ago)!

wideboy26 · 31/01/2017 13:31

There was only time for a quick exchange of cards and wishes before she left for work this morning, but my wife was touched to read a few lines of DH Lawrence in the card I gave her. Thank you again to all those who took the trouble to submit suggestions.

She has more treats to look forward to when she comes home this evening.

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