OK so I have been in a relationship for about 5years and we are happy together well at least he said he's happy with me... My problem is that I am insecure about him, deep down I trust him but some how I just can't help but check this phone stuff like that but at the start of the relationship he was trying to get back with his ex so since then that doubt will never go away.. A few times I have found Porn on this phone and it made me feel so sad and more insecure so I confronted him about it and he basically brushed me off! I told him it hurts me and it's disrespectful but yet he still dose it at any chance he can, even though I Have made a effort to spice things up, I found the Porn again last night he had deleted it but left traces so I no what he's up to and he's hiding it from me which makes me feel even worse. I love him but when i found the Porn last night it didn't even hurt me I felt quite cold about it, has anyone experienced the same situation or have any advice for me?