Im new here, ive been reading for a little while but decided its now time to bite the bullet and ask for an outside take on my situation.
My DH and I have been married for less than a year, things seem to have gone down hill since the wedding and I feel I don't love him like I used too.
I feel DH has no motivation, no get up and go. He rarely helps in the house, leaves any job he starts unfinished, he's quite happy to just sit in the chair day after day.
He seems to have no desire to help me out or do anything nice for me and will see me struggle rather than get off his backside and lend a hand.
He's currently complaining that I don't give him enough attention and I agree, I don't, the reason being I see all of the above as a sign of disrespect so I'm angry with him pretty much constantly. It's like he's one of the children rather than a husband.
I want him to contribute to the household of his own back, to be able to do stuff without having to be chivvied along and I want to feel respected and looked after, like I can rely on him.
This is killing my love and respect for DH.
Am I asking too much of him??