What 'evidence' do you need to cite adultery in a divorce?

[Passthebiscuitspls]

just that really! I've had a PI follow him (LCB) and it's confirmed to me that he is cheating, with the woman I thought it was. He stayed at her house overnight. Went out for breakfast with her and then went back in her house for an hour, then he left.
The pictures of this haven't come out though. But are pictures of them together, outside her house enough? I really don't think he will admit it to me, he's very arrogant!
Do I need to send the PI back to get more pictures? I'm presuming it's very hard to prove. But I would like to cite 'Adultery' in the divorce if I can. I obviously haven't let on that I know to him, in case I need more evidence.
Thanks!

I am sorry that has hurt you and well done for taking control of your life.

Please, also remember that he is your children's father and try not to bad mouth him.

Pass Please be aware some people react aggressively/violently when they realise they have been found out and their squeaky clean respectable image is under threat.
Also, more people then you would probably like to think just don't care if someone they know is having an affair, or they don't want to get involved, or they assume/have been told by him you are deficient in some way to drive him into the arms of OW - the poor diddums.

I agree with running

If you want to tell him face to face I would make sure the DC are not at home, but maybe someone you trust is there. A best friend/brother?

He might turn nasty.