So around 5 months ago I got together with someone I met through mutual friends, and things were going swimmingly. We couldnt keep our hands off each other, shagging all the time and had taken numerous trips away spending a lot of time together and discussed a future together. Then one day 2 months ago, to me out of the blue, she said wasn't ready for a romantic relationship. She explained this was because her previous boyfriend had been very unpleasant to her and she could not be involved with someone on a romantic level at the moment, but thought I would not be prepared to wait for her to sort herself out. I said I would be, but she insisted we should be just friends from now on. So I backed off, but we kept meeting up as friends.
Now 2 weeks ago she told me she has been seeing someone and I told her we can't be friends anymore because its too painful for me due to my feelings for her. I also feel that everything she told me previously was lies. But she won't leave me alone - she was crying when I left her house and keeps sending me facebook messages about how she doesn't want to lose me. I don't understand why she can't understand I don't want to watch her be with another guy. Any female insight into her beahviour? Should I just continue to ignore the messages?