My son in law has allegedly been working away from home on a number of weekends. He rarely contacts my daughter when he's away. He had told my daughter about a work colleague that he is 'friends' with and making very openly complimentary remarks about her and told my daughter that she is very unhappily married. He has openly showed my daughter pics of them together along with the woman's daughter which made them look like a family. He has told my daughter on a number of occasions about days when they have met up together outside of work at the weekend, one occasion she brought her 3 year old son along. There have been nights he had been due to arrive home but never turned up. My daughter has checked his phone records and they are constantly calling and texting one another, on most days being the first and last person they speak to each day. On one particular occasion he told my daughter he was meeting this woman for the afternoon and then dinner. My daughter later found a hotel receipt for that night with her husband's name and Mrs Xx Xx on it. After tackling him he said he had stayed with another guy colleague at the hotel and the hotel receipt was a misprint, then the story changed and he said he stayed on his own. Then he changed his story and said he was working that day. She found out that the place he said he was working wasn't even open so we know that's not true. They Skype one another and my daughter has found messages where they call each other 'babe' etc and end with numerous kisses. My daughter feels totally betrayed. She has always been very trusting....Stupidly so and so he has been playing her for a mug seemingly.
I just wondered if other people would be equally suspicious about what is going on? And would you be inclined to alert the other woman's husband to what our suspicions are as she has been taking their child to meet him as well? Just wanted an objective viewpoint on the situation.