Hello,
I am completely lost right now trying to decide if I should get a divorce. We have been married for 6 years with 3 incredible children. My husband used to be a such a sweet man who helped me with our children. Now all he does is critize everything that I do and spends almost no time at home or with our kids. Yesterday was my breaking point after he called me a f b that should walk in front of a bus with my children in the room. He goes out almost every night and sometimes doesn't come home until the next day. Even when he is home he sits on the couch on his phone. I've told him that I can't handle much more of this and he has made it clear that he will fight me for every penny because he makes the majority of our income. Please help me decide what to do. We used to be so in love but now feel like strangers with completely separate lives.