Hi, I found out that my husband had been using escorts not long after our child was born. I was devastated. I couldn't believe he would be capable of such a thing. When I found out I moved out temporarily to get some space as my world just fell apart. After a few months I went back for half the week and he had counselling and we then had couples counselling. I guess to see if I could make any sense of it and to try to have a conversation without just raging at him. It now transpires that he had still been using them in the time between I left to when I came back, which has made me feel hopeless as I thought he would see the damage that he had caused to me and our family and stop doing it. He said he did it because he didn't think there was any chance of me taking him back.
I'm sure there are a million people who would say get rid and don't stand for it and I can't actually believe that I didn't just divorce him straight away but things aren't that clear cut when you are actually in that situation. I guess I'm wanting to know if there is anyone who has been in my situation and if they gave their partner another chance, how did it go? I just feel at a cross roads. I love this man and I wanted us to bring our child up together but I really don't know now if that trust can ever be rebuilt X