I just want to know if others experience similar issues or should I call it a day.
Is it possible he does love me?
So 8 years together, 1 house and 2 children.
I love my partner but I'm still not sure he feels the same. I want to feel loved and wanted!
Before I continue I want you to know the issues I'm going to discuss have been issue since we first started dating.
First off my man never tells me he loves me, he can't give compliments and doesn't know how to be affectionate and loving. I always though if I was loving and affectionate to him, it would lift his confidence and he could learn from me. Boy was wrong!
Second he suffers for delayed ejaculation we didn't successfully have sex till 6 months into our relationship ship over time things have improved but he can only make him self cum which makes me feel useless and he often give limp.
Third he never wants sex, I get rejected about 3 out of 4 times I ask. When we do have sex I have to come to him and I'm always on top.
He masterbates regularly which upset me because I feel he would rather do that than have sex with me.
I once had a dildo but he really wasn't happy about the fact I had one let alone used it so put it in the bin.
Iv have tried to talk to him about it but tells me he know where I am coming from and he knows he should try harder, he tell me what I want to hear I think just to shut me up but doesn't make an effort.
He always blames it on his confidence yet he will happily walk in the bathroom and have a number 2 infront of me or walk around the house in his dressing gown when people are round?? I don't dare do that!
He's still hasn't proposed or doesn't seem to care?
Iv become bitter, resentful, a nag maybe a little obsessed with wondering with if I should leave
In the last couple of month we have been quite stressed and are really sort tempered and rude ish to each other which I don't like around the kids