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How do I get this to end on my terms?

28 replies

Pixieb34 · 02/01/2017 11:08

Sorry, long story...
My ex left 3 months ago after a 2 1/2 yr relationship, living with me and my 2 ds.
No contact, he just cut me out of his life overnight like I didn't exist. Has ignored my few and brief attempts to contact him. Never said goodbye to my children, was extremely cold and callous about the whole thing. This was a huge shock to me, and deeply hurt me and my boys. I'm still struggling to come to terms with it as I honestly believed he loved me.
Anyway, we owned a trailer (for camping gear) together, and I sold it in November. I needed the money as he left me in a terrible position financially too and I just didn't want to look at it everyday!!!
He text me out of the blue on New Year's Eve to say he'd visited his mate, my next door neighbour, and noticed the trailer wasn't there, what had I done with it?
I decided to ignore him....after 3 months of nothing he sends that!! Not to mention he spent all evening next door and I had no idea!! If my boys had seen him it would've been just awful!!
Well, he sent me some question marks in a text at 11.20 last night, obviously annoyed I never replied!!
What should I do to end this in the best way? I can't have a discussion about it with someone who clearly cares so little for me and my feelings.

OP posts:
RoseOfSharyn · 03/01/2017 20:07

Glad you're changing the locks.
As for the trailer, don't worry about it.

My ex came into my house and stole my washer, drier, several hundred pounds worth of entertainment equipment and destroyed all of my jewellery. As it was bought as an 'asset of the relationship' he was apparently allowed to do as he wished with it....so if the trailer was jointly yours then it's 'fair game' in the eyes of the law! (Apparently!) Smile

LellyMcKelly · 03/01/2017 21:25

You tried to contact him. He didn't respond. End of story. Change your locks, block him and move on. It's not your job to store his stuff.

BlueFolly · 03/01/2017 21:42

I can't believe the cheek of him?!!!

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