I have found Match.com details in my husbands email. He swears that it is spam. However, these things say that they are from 'Match Message'. They say that he has a date request. When I read further down, it does say 'free to look, no credit card needed'. BUT there are others that actually have names and email addresses! Another say's, 'Your friend has just joined. Also one that says, 'You have a new message from a match.com member. He still swears that this is just spam. I went on the site and only briefly tapped in some info. I am now receiving stuff saying that someone has winked at me, followers etc which I know is rubbish as I have not done a complete profile. BUT my spam looks completely different to his. I don't understand this 'Match Message'? Does this mean he has subscribed and these messages are real? He has admitted to being on porn sites - and that's a whole OTHER story. He says being on porn sites allows you to be targeted by dating websites? Any advice would be so welcome. Thanks.