We are newly split this month. Although he has some abusive traits, jealousy and paranoia about my whereabouts or who I was seeing were not one of them. E.g. He's never accused me of cheating. He uses my email and facebook because he is/was the ultimate stoner man child who never got round to actually creating his own. I'm not comfortable with having these things still shared with him but considering how badly it ended we are actually pretty amicable with each other. I don't want to rock the boat by saying I need to change the passwords. I'm worried that he would start questioning cheating and stuff for the first time and I don't need that. I even had to create a new email for mumsnet a while back incase he read pms.
We have a young daughter and I want things as smooth between us for her as well. I feel like there could be a back lash from this and he'll get paranoid about my fidelity for the first time ever. (for the record, I've never been unfaithful and sex/relationships couldn't be further from my mind. I'm actually enjoying not having sex)!
The other problem is all his massive family are on facebook and most of them he hasn't even told we've broken up yet.
But for me the worst of it is that as a sorry/favour to me he is dealing with the breaking of our rental agreement with our LL which is a massive source of anxiety to me. All the LLs communications are done through email so If I change the passwords I'll be left dealing with that which scares the fuck out of me.
Any advice please?