He just does nothing in the house, or with the DCs. Even the few small jobs that are 'his' to do such as emptying the kitchen bin he hardly ever does. I'm just fucking sinking.
I have been diagnosed with bipolar disorder in the past year. When I'm 'up' I'm ok and I manage to keep my head above water even though I have to do everything. When I'm 'down', such as right now, I feel like taking the kids and just driving off somewhere and leaving him.
I work practically full time. I run a business from home too, which DH would be mightily pissed off if I stopped doing but it takes up a lot of my time. DH made the decision over the past few years to get 3 dogs, which I have to walk, clean up after etc. I have to do all the thinking, all the organising, everything.
If I am in a down slump, as I am at the moment, then he does absolutely nothing. I have had to drag myself food shopping today as we had no food in the house and he wouldn't even do an online shop. He's gone to the pub.
He's barely acknowledged my bipolar diagnosis. I have been misdiagnosed with depression for years and he's barely acknowledged that too. He just gets pissed off if I don't do the things I usually do.
So anyway, today I feel like I'm fucking sinking. I had to take my disabled mum shopping earlier and cart the kids along with me as he wouldn't even look after them for 2 hours.
I've had enough.