This couple have only recently got together, she has been married twice (no dc) and he has been married once but has dc by other ladies and is a serial cheater.
We are all in a hobby group and not particularly close but it is about team work and we compete fairly successfully. This couple breaking up would destroy our group. When they first got together I did tell her to be careful and not get her heartbroken. She listened and said I wasn't the first to say this but I've since learnt she was really cross with me and she clearly dislikes me now.
She has just announced she is pregnant (it will be his 4th) and I was told by another group member that the DP is still having sex with his XW and also hitting on another girl within our group. (This girl also told me this)
Does it serve anything to tell the pregnant woman, other than destroy a group and upset 30 odd people? To upset her when she is so happy and just before Christmas and knowing she won't want to listen to me anyway. The truth will come out in the end as it always does. WWYD?