Or should I 'chill' as he tells me.
1st date - coffee and general chit chat. I was going out that night and he offered to pick me up. I said no its ok. He text through the evening and a replied only once as I was with friends. He seemed really eager. There was me thinking oh he wants to see me. The end of the night I drunkenly agreed. Did NOT ask him in even though he wanted to.
Next day arranged date 2. He then was hinting to come to mine instead. I said NO I would like to go out. He was all lovely saying of course. Where etc....I agreed to another coffee. On the Sunday.
He cancelled 2 hours before saying his children were there but hadn't mentioned this previously as he has them every other weekend. OK fine not that eager today. We arranged an evening out so texting through the week. He texts alot.
Met him Friday. Got a new top, had my nails done and really excited as i NEVER go out and arranged a sitter and a lift. 2 hours in he was asking me back to his. I have chatted about my life and children but he doesn't ask.
We were chatting about relationships and he says he doesn't see the need to tell someone he loves them every day. It means nothing then. He also said his ex called him emotionally numb all of the time.
Anyway I didn't go back to his. I want more than just that and not 100% sure of his intensions.
Date 3 hasn't been arranged. It's only Tuesday. He is on a dating site. He 'jokingly' said he stays on there incase someone else better comes along but obviously if we date more seriously he would come off it. He made it out to be funny.