I just want to give a little background so you know the full story.
I had met him at a festival when I was drunk in August. He is 9 years older than me and has two children. I am 26 with no children.
Ever since I have known him he has consistently made "jokes" about us getting married. He has questioned me on when I would like children, when I said I am not ready to have them in my 20's he seemed disappointed and said I have to try now (he meant with him)
A lot of his comments I brushed off because irrespective of this we had good conversations about other things.
He would constantly ask me to come on holiday with him, claiming he would pay and ask me to come with him to Cornwall.
I agreed to go corn with him until he told me its an over night thing so I declined.
Basically what he was trying to do was get me in a hotel with him.
He also tried to do this when he knew I was going to America to see my family in November begging me for him to come out there with me, I told him I wanted to go alone and he wouldn't stop asking me so I cut him off and stopped answering his calls. This was around two weeks before I left for America.
I did however answer one of his messages when I was in America and then started talking to him again. (I have no idea why I did so)
He calmed down with his clingyness when I was in America but when I returned it started again.
He did drive me to go collect my car, he offered and I accepted when I returned. Obviously a mistake because he seemed to believe I now owed him something.
I saw him on the day I returned and then he wanted to see me again two days later, He was grilling me on what I was doing in the evening when I said I was busy.
I just wanted to relax after being on holiday and sort my life out but he was just trying to force me to come out.
It got to much and I finally stopped answering his calls when he called me on private number and said "its isyss boyfriend, its your boyfriend"
I just hung up the phone and kept ignoring his calls (which where everyday) and his message.
Eventually I just blocked him.
This was two weeks ago.
Today I got a call from him on private number and he said "what have i done, what have i done" but in a jokey manner.
I just hung up the phone and he called me back again, I cut off the phone.
I don't understand why he would call me if I blocked him, we were nothing. I never had sex or anything with him.
I also don't feel I owe him any explanation, If I don't want to speak to you anymore you shouldnt contact me its not exactly like I knew him long and we went on ONE date.
What do You think?