Another job I don't think I've got ... feel so down

[Helloyou4]

I've posted a few times recently, explaining that I've been feeling really down about still being single, living in a new area and having a hard time at work. All seems to have gone wrong at the same time!

In my last thread I had a lot of support and was advised to keep going, things will change soon etc (which was all great advice). So I had a third interview (last two jobs I didn't get, despite being narrowed down to the last two),and I feel it's gone really badly. I don't have the energy to deal with it all anymore. My career is in a competitive industry, and they're interviewing 4 others next week, and I just feel so down about it all.

This was my final push of energy and positivity... I just don't think I can cope with it anymore. I wanted this one thing to go well, and it hasn't and I just feel completely worn down.

I want to give up, feel so fed up tonight

You will get there! Just the fact that you've come so close in the last few interviews in such a competitive industry speaks volumes. Good luck op xx

I'm sorry things are crap. I can't offer any advice because it sounds like you're doing the right things, you're still plugging away and you are getting somewhere (down to the last 2 is great).

There's no harm in giving yourself a little break from trying, having a good night's kip, not thinking about things for a few days and picking things up again when you feel ready. Its easy to always blame yourself but it's difficult to give yourself the same kindness as you would give others who were in your boat.

Thanks posters. Feel frozen in nothingness today.

Sorry you are feeling this way. Why do you think this last interview went badly. You are still in the game even though they are interviewing others.