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Reality Check! Every time we have a disagreement/argument he ignores me! Is this normal for a man?

9 replies

Xmas2016 · 08/12/2016 19:45

Just wondering if this is how most men react? I mean I just simply do not exist to him, it's driving me insane and I can't handle it anymore!

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gamerchick · 08/12/2016 19:53

No, sulking is passive aggressive and incredibly annoying. When my ex did it I told him to fuck off and come back when he's over himself.

You don't pander to him to jolly him out of it do you?

Liara · 08/12/2016 19:54

No, not normal at all. I've been married for 25 years and have had many, many arguments and disagreements in that time and not once has dh ignored me.

Xmas2016 · 08/12/2016 19:55

Sometimes I do I have to be honest but I just had enough!

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AyeAmarok · 08/12/2016 19:56

It's normal for immature, emotionally manipulative twonks of both sexes.

But it's not "normal for a man", no.

thegoodnameshadgone · 08/12/2016 19:56

My soon to be ex H did this for weeks at a time. I made me feel incredibly lonely as I couldn't talk to people about it as I knew it was ridiculous! Hope your ok

defineme · 08/12/2016 19:58

No, not normal, we're meant to be kind to the one we love.

Xmas2016 · 08/12/2016 20:09

thegoodnameshadgone thank you! Exactly what he does and exactly how he makes me feel!

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TheReferoo · 08/12/2016 22:30

2 months and counting of being ignored here. I'm formulating an exit plan, just need to buck up the courage to carry it out Sad It's shit, and it's ridiculous.

LellyMcKelly · 08/12/2016 23:11

I had an ex like that. I ditched him. Anyone who thinks it's ok to treat someone like that, especially somebody he loves, is a twat who doesn't deserve your time or energy.

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