Should I ask him wtf

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I've been in a ldr relationship for about 6 months very casual. He is very much a closed book lots and lots of stuff in his past that makes it tough for him to open up. We have been getting closer more recently though and I did think things were better. Then sudenly he's ghosted me we haven't spoken/ text for over a week now. It's made me realise he's not right for me but I still really want to know what his issue is and why he stopped talking. Waste of my time or not and if not help me word the last text I send to him

The last text you sent him should be the last one. Move on and don't look back.

Closed book, emotionally unavailable, not interested..could be all of the above.

You won't get a straight answer or one that will satisfy you.He's hardly likely to say "I'm emotional all stunted and can't deal with relationships".

It's frustrating but accept it's over and realise some where there will be learning from this and that will help you at the next stage in your life.

Get out of it now move on

Sounds like my ex! If he's 5'10, light brown hair & acts like he's 12.....although 29! Ask him from me too!

I wouldn't give him the satisfaction by even texting, however! Given the fact it's hard & I understand! Just be casual! Don't seem full on or angry.

Don't text back. You've inadvertently saved yourself pain, I can assure you.

You are all right I'm not going to message him. I thought I was a bit of a hard arse when it came to not being messed around by men but it seems I'm a walkover and I've got to work on that

How about texting him something like:
Sorry but it's not working out. Good luck for your future.

And block!

Don't text. It gives him the opportunity to ignore you again. Some of us remember how shit that made us feel, cursing ourself for not just leaving it.