Meet the Other Phone. A phone that grows with your child.

Meet the Other Phone.
A phone that grows with your child.

Buy now

Please or to access all these features

Relationships

Mumsnet has not checked the qualifications of anyone posting here. If you need help urgently or expert advice, please see our domestic violence webguide and/or relationships webguide. Many Mumsnetters experiencing domestic abuse have found this thread helpful: Listen up, everybody

Should I end it?

16 replies

ringaling · 08/12/2016 16:48

He is lazy,he lives with his mate,drives he's car.
Always changes plans.
Was meant to see me Tuesday,said he had football,last night said he had his son(don't believe him) but he said Thursday we will have a nice night in etc..text him earlier and he said he might not have his mates car to drive over.

Text him saying "right what you doing because il make other plans" he read it and hasn't replied ..
I deserve better than this..shall I bin him off?
I have feelings for him but I've been down this road before and not prepared to do it again.

OP posts:
TwitterQueen1 · 08/12/2016 16:50

Yes, end it. He can't bothered with you.

AttilaTheMeerkat · 08/12/2016 16:51

You have recently had one thread going about this loser of a bloke and now you've started another one. Are you looking for different answers?.

He should have already been binned, you need to examine your own reasons most carefully as to why you have not yet done this.

ringaling · 08/12/2016 16:56

I really like him,I guess I was hoping things would improve

OP posts:
TheNaze73 · 08/12/2016 17:01

He really can't be arsed with you & isn't interested

flapjackfairy · 08/12/2016 17:01

Oh ringaling hope springs eternal and if you like him that makes it really hard. But have to say you deserve so much better so yes end it and move on x

PollytheDolly · 08/12/2016 17:02

Ditch the dodo. You're better than that crap.

ringaling · 08/12/2016 17:03

He rings me and texts me all the time,I don't understand if he wasn't interested why not just say?
Why string me along?

OP posts:
RatherBeRiding · 08/12/2016 17:06

Because it's easier to mess you around than be honest.

Also, he's probably keeping you handy for when he CAN be bothered.

Nice guys don't string you along and mess you about.

Ditch.

Idodo · 08/12/2016 17:11

Oh it's not pot noodle man is it?

He's not going to change.

isseywithcats · 08/12/2016 17:12

he keeps you interested because it massages his ego to know that hes only got to text you and you will reply, this way he dosent have to make any effort if he really cared about you he would be going out of his way to keep you happy, ditch him darling theres plenty more blokes out there who would treat you the way you should be treated x

ringaling · 08/12/2016 17:25

He read my message an hour ago and he is active on Facebook chat ..
I'm getting really wound up ,he is exactly like an ex
Exactly

OP posts:
PollytheDolly · 08/12/2016 17:42

"He rings me and texts me all the time,I don't understand if he wasn't interested why not just say?
Why string me along?"

Because he can. Don't be an enabler.

He is a knobjockey. Just block the wanker.

AyeAmarok · 08/12/2016 17:42

HIJNTIY.

Don't waste any more of your time. He won't improve, he has no reason to and he can't be arsed.

TheNaze73 · 08/12/2016 17:46

OP, if he messages you all the time, why are you stalking him on FB messenger?

Your behaviour really isn't rational

Bufferingkisses · 08/12/2016 18:04

Because texts etc take almost zero effort but keep you hanging on so you're handy for when he wants a shag can be bothered.

Bin him and work out why you are, repeatedly, developing feelings for a "type" that is several yards south of what anyone deserves.

SparklyMagpie · 08/12/2016 18:10

For Gods sake, just bin him off

New posts on this thread. Refresh page
Swipe left for the next trending thread