Thank you

[Condasend]

I ve been mostly lurking here for 7 years. I think it's saved my sanity. I've read the advice that's been given and the books that have recommended. It's helped so much. Tomorrow my exp finally leaves and I can't wait.

Tonight he s drinking again because "he's his own man now!" He came into my room where my daughter is sleeping and starting stroking her hair and trying to lift her up. I told him to stop because he's drunk. He stormed off calling me a condasending bitch.

It used to sting when he called me names, but on hearing that I felt complete resolution that I will never be in a relationship with anyone that degrades me again.

I'm looking forward to a peaceful life with my children, so thanks to everyone that gives advice on here. You make a massive difference

Well done you. Your new life is just beginning, all that peace and calm.

Congratulations.

Keep safe. Change the locks once he has gone

When he's gone take a moment to savour the feeling of freedom. Remembering how you felt at that moment can get you through some of the difficult moments as a single parent. Well done for getting your life back, I am six years down the line and still love the fact I am free and independant xxx

Agree with jeaux when the moment comes you'll be walking on air, you'll feel you can conquer the world - and you can!

Well done

Not wanting to derail op but my best friend has recently left an abusive marriage and I'm convinced it was her thread on here which gave her the final push to do it. Say what you want about MN, it really does have an impact on people's lives.

And back to you, I'll raise a theoretical glass to you and your future free from that arse hole.

Keep being strong. (Is this the child's father ? there will undoubtedly be more struggles in the future if this is the case)
But Well done ! Do not fall into the arms of any likely newcomer, it takes time to heal, & learn to be assertive....

Nothing to add, just doing a little pompom dance for you. Go Conda, Go Go Go!

Congratulations you are about to start your own life. I have had the same experience here on mumsnet. I have read advice, seen instances of women pulling themselves out of horrendous situations and all with the collective help of some amazing women. I was shell shocked when my X walked out with no notice but a year on I'm in a much better place and thanks in no small part to the collective wisdom I've seen on here. So I'm adding my thanks to yours.