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Is he ignoring me or do I need to stop over thinking everything ?

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Kittykatxxo · 02/12/2016 15:19

I've been speaking to a guy I used to date when I was younger for about a month we have had 3 dates and he normally messages me every morning saying good morning , lately he started to speak about relationships he messaged me often saying he wants a relationship again and he wants to take it slow first because he likes me and if we rush and it ends quick or badly he would be gutted, he often sent me loads of messages telling me he likes me cares about me I'm beautiful a lot of that sort of thing always telling me he's glad I've come back into his life about a week ago he got busy with work and the gym so he messaged me saying he's sorry he is not giving me enough time but he still wants to be with me he's just trying to sort some stuff out  He doesn't want it all to go to waste cos he thinks we have met up again for a reason And he hopes I still want to see him and a couple days after that he took me on a date when I got home he messaged me saying he loved seeing me and it was always best part of his day we spoke for a few days then he didn't speak to me for two days so I messaged him asking what he was doing and he replied saying sorry he had been mountain clumbing (which he had ) and his gprs wasn't working proper but he was on his way home we spoke abit more then he stopped speaking.. he has not red my last message (sent two days ago) and has not been online but I'm so confused  can I have some advice on what to do please and what you think of all this.. thanks 

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Vagabond · 02/12/2016 15:34

He'll contact you if he wants to. And if he wants to contact you, he'll move heaven and earth to do so.

If you don't hear from him, then he doesn't want to contact you. Or, it's not a priority.

That is my distillation gleaned from being 50 years old and having lots of experience with men.

Adora10 · 02/12/2016 15:47

He's not interested, well he is, up to a point, I get the impression he's giving the same line to whoever listens and believes him.

You should always judge a person by their actions, words are cheap, and he's full of BS.

Whatthefreaknow · 02/12/2016 15:49

Agree with both posters above.

Costacoffeeplease · 02/12/2016 15:49

He sounds full of it - a few weeks in? Forget him and move on

RatherBeRiding · 02/12/2016 15:54

Hmmmm. Not wanting to be cynical but it does sound as though he might be cooling off a bit. "Stuff to sort out". Hmm

If he's really keen, you'll know. If you think he's cooling off and distancing himself - you'll know.

TheNaze73 · 02/12/2016 16:12

He's not that interested. It only takes 10 seconds to send a text.

PineappleExpress · 02/12/2016 16:18

I get the impression he's giving the same line to whoever listens and believes him.

^ This.

happychristmasbum · 02/12/2016 16:22

Yes, what Adora said, sadly.

Next time you start seeing someone maybe speak more and message less? It does seem to give rise to a lot of these insecurities......................Flowers

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