For me or someone else?

[GimmieTea2]

Hi, I don't know if any of you have read my previous posts on here about my H I haven't posted for a while but here I go again.

Today at about half 2 I got a text from H (Who was at work since 11 and not due intill 8:30 tonight)
Written exactly; Hi, I have to go to another lesson so think I will finish at half 3 in stead today sorry!! Love you Xxx

Now he hasn't said I love you to me for well over a year and never puts X's on the end of a message and also doesn't have a job where he would have lessons....also not home.
What do you guys think??

You should not have involved your children in the details of your dysfunctional relationship with their father. Can't you talk about this with friends/family instead? It's emotionally damaging for them, and you've now given them a secret to keep from their dad. Selfish and indulgent of you.

Dependant eh

If you leave you are entitled to certain benefits even JSA if kids are older but at school , college, uni this includes child tax credits including mainetance.

I know it's easier to stay than leave as its the Unknown. I know I've been there it's bloody scary

Oh and if he's deleted it ask to see his phone if he delays he's hiding something and you what it is.

Also you don't need an excuse to leave either.

I'd do as pposters have said and get urself in order first (I wish I'd have done it differently, with hindsight , when I left my husband, I should have bided my time, went on college course, saved some money etc. Do whatever it takes so you are in a stronger position. And keep looking for work, they're always looking for dinner ladies, then u'd get working tax credits too so ur not as skint when u do leave. Good luck.

My exH always blamed his phone for things, it seemed to have a mind of its own. I only wish I'd realised sooner.