Abusive eh says I have abused, attacked & belittled him

[itsjustamess]

My exH who has a documented history of abuse against him has just accused me of abusing, attacking him & be-littling him in front of our 2 teenage DS (17 & 15)

Despite the fact he treated to suffocate me with cling film, numerous suicide threats & the police having to take me to a safe house.

Background to this incident : 2 weeks ago he took the then 14 yo to the cinema - it was a 15 film. He had purchased the tickets and was refused entry because he didn't have ID. "Somehow" he got in a fight with the bouncer in the foyer and ended up getting the poor guy by the throat. All in full public view & in front of DS.

Tonight he came to pick DS up & they were talking about fighting.

EXH " I only have to go to the cinema to get in a fight LOLOLOL"
Me : " It's not something to brag about"

He was like a bomb " How dare you attack me in front of children. All you ever do is abuse and belittle me"

Just absolutely staggering - wanker

I'm bumping this thread up because of my continuing concern for the OP's safety.

If you're reading this, OP, your h is one of the most dangerous men I've read about on this board because he is of the opinion that he can do what the fuck he wants whenever he wants.

To this extent he believes he's above the law and the only way he can be disabused of this notion is for the police to knock him back every time he puts a foot out of line, which they will do if you obtain a non-mol.

Otherwise I fear you may wake up one night to find him in your bedroom holding a knife as the only thing that is predictable about him is his unpredictability.

As I've said, your eligiblity for legal aid is time limited and I hope you'll seek advice from a solicitor who has specific expertise in cases of da as soon as you can.

You can't afford to lose any more weight or become any more stressed than you currently are. PLEASE get back to Women's Aid and update here when/if you have the time.