I need some virtual hand holding - EA

[KittyInTheMiddle]

DH told me today that he had realised that a friendship was starting to cross the line into EA territory. I'm heartbroken and torn between feeling so glad that he has told me so early on and feeling like everything I knew has been shaken.

I don't want to talk to friends or family about it because I can't bear the thought of them pitying me, discussing our marriage with others or judging DH.

I tried to go to sleep but that's not likely. Anyone out there to keep me company?

Unless he already has.

It's a terrible situation op. Really horrible.

He's been so cruel.

And he will carry on being cruel. If you let him.

Has he been behaving badly at home recently? Picking fights? Being generally unpleasant?

Nothing will make anything better apart from getting him to leave.

Don't do the "pick me" dance op. Protect yourself and your children, he either commits fully, apologises and cuts all contact with her or its game over.