Boyfriend's WhatsApp use changed... Suspicious?

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My boyfriend barely used WhatsApp and now he's online a lot, through the day and night as well.

Can't help but be suspicious as an ex did this. Then I found out he cheated.

Do I ask to look but then he will know I have trust issues?

If he is otherwise treating you nicely then try not to look for signs that he's being sneaky. I would just go on his actual behaviour towards you

I have my 'last online' feature turned off for this very reason. Not so that people can't see my online time, but because it means that I can't see theirs! When I had it enabled I found it all too easy to obsess over when someone was last online, why they hadn't read my message yet and who else they might be talking to. That way madness lies!

If you have no other reason to be suspicious then I'd just let it go. And disable the feature!

Not nec anything to worry about. I'd be more concerned if he was cagey with his phone. My DH workplace have made a Whatsapp group chat this year. It is literally driving my DH up the wall, as he is expected to answer work related chat, on his days off. Of course his Whatsapp is now far more active than it ever was, because of this. Every time the chime goes, he's like "For Fucks Sake, Fucking work" (and I've seen the chat so I know it's 100% true). Could be similar for your BF.