Hi all,
I am really at the end of my tether with my husband. He cannot do anything independently and behaves like a teenager.
I will ask him to do simple tasks like make a phone call, hang the washing up, pick some milk up on the way home. 95% of the time he will 'forget' to do what I have asked, and it has got to the point where I am actually in utter disbelief when he does do something!
He will ask me to help him with silly tasks like 'help me load the dishwasher', 'help me give our son a bath' or 'can you check if our sons dinner is too hot?' It is so frustrating because I feel like these are things he should be able to do independently.
We had a massive argument tonight because I have been asking him for a month to ring up student finance to organise a grant we need for his course. He has to do it because the account is in his name, so I can't ring them and sort it myself. Every time I ask him to ring them he says 'I will get round to it' - but he never actually does! It is driving me insane. He misses appointments because he 'can't remember' when he was meant to attend them.
It really is like living with a teenage boy. I have to instruct him what do to, most of the time he doesn't do anything I've asked, he watches porn frequently and neglects our sex life.
I am sick of feeling like I live with a teenager.