Winning an ex back?

[Crazycat1980]

I know, I know...

But has anyone got any advice or positive stories? Two months on and 30 days NC, I'm still utterly heartbroken

Use those 4 weeks productively: make plans for you, diet, change your appearance...

Or eat whatever you like and don't change your appearance unless you want to.

You are not in a "win him back" montage.

Don't think, omg it'll be crap without him... Ensure it won't be.

This is very good advice.

Thank you
Thank you
Thank you

There is nothing like 25 strangers telling you the same thing to make you feel like you are being a total idiot.

2017 a new year....

Onwards xxx

OP, why do you want him back? Is it so you can smash his heart into a million tiny pieces, destroy his life and make him feel your pain x 1000?

If so, I may be able to help you.

I'm currently in a situation where after no contact (30 days officially) my ex and I are spending a lot more time together.

I don't trust him. Each time he does something which wouldn't necessarily be a problem for other people, I plan how I'm going to run for the hills.

I'm planning on permanent no contact when this all falls apart but don't know how I can end it. I am happy, but I'm living on a knife edge and truthfully, I regret getting back in contact with him. I was much happier before.

Live your life, be happy, forget about him, I will do that eventually but for now I can't break free.

OP I hope that strengths your resolve. I wasted the best 5 childbearing years of my life on an arse like that.

These Peter Pan men are pointless wastes of space

I wish I'd had the wisdom and support of MN 20 years ago.

he doesn't want you.
sorry - but he just doesn't.
move on. for your own sake.