I've noticed that DH and I often end up talking about each other/disagreeing with each other when we're with friends/relatives.
It happened last night and then when our guest left we had a bit of a row and cleared the air a bit (it was stuff about how we organise the house. We shared a passion when we met, but DH has taken it much further than me and it ends up dominating the house and me losing the identify as passion-sharer and being branded as passion-hater. I feel like a guest in my own house sometimes).
I'm a bit down about it and am hoping someone can come along and say something positive.