Ahhrrrhh!! I'm annoying myself with this! I need to move on and struggling... had a brief relationship, not even really, he initiated it, dated for just over 3 months, he then realised he wasn't ready, impossible to do no contact, as same social circle, a couple of months after we broke up, at a party and kissed again. So my problem...another party coming up and trying to make sure I resist his advances..I know I need to and it is for my own benifit, as I want more than this.... he doesn't so I need to say no, but how! Even when he messages me I'm still all a flutter!! I am trying to avert my attention (in my mind) onto a previous crush, and looking for a new crush but he is still Taking up too much of my head space...I try and focus on his bad points... I feel like I'm my own worst enemy at the minute, want to be at a point where I feel non fussed by him.... any tips and advice to get to this point would be hugely appreciated, as I'm getting no where fast!! Thank you