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How pissed off would you be?

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ByeByeLilSebastian · 10/11/2016 10:52

I said to dh this morning that I might do a pregnancy test as my period is late. I've come off the injection so not overly worried.
Dh then basically accused me of cheating and asked who's baby it would be. We use a condom every time but there have been a few times when he's wanted in to me but not cum (sorry I know that's tmi), and that got me paranoid that there's a very slight chance I could be pg.
I laughed his statement off at the time but now I'm thinking about it it's pissing me off. I've done to suggest I could be cheating. I leave my phone laying round all the time, he can go on it whenever he wants. Why would he accuse me of cheating?

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mumonashoestring · 10/11/2016 10:57

I think I'd be quite worried about his grasp of basic reproductive biology. Maybe buy him a nice simple book on how it all works with short words and lots of pictures and tell him I'd consider having sex with him again once he knew what he was doing.

ErrolTheDragon · 10/11/2016 11:01

Very pissed off. Except it wouldn't have happened to me because DH always knew about the failure rates of different methods, and that exactly what you do can make a difference.

ByeByeLilSebastian · 10/11/2016 11:01

He doesn't seem to think there's any chance that doing that could result in pregnancy. I know there's not much chance but it's a risk I don't want to take!
It was just the way his first thought was that it was someone else's that got to me. I thought he could trust me.

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Charlie97 · 10/11/2016 12:52

The instructions in a packet of condoms should explain how to use them.

I'm sorry but to immediately jump to the conclusion you've been unfaithful is not acceptable. Has he never heard of a contraception failure??? Never mind not using contraception.

He sounds like he's about 16, how old is he?

Apart from his stupidity surrounding contraception, his accusations are intolerable!

TheNaze73 · 10/11/2016 13:43

As if condoms alone are enough. They're not considered contraception if used alone any more. He needs to wake up, grow up & you should buy him a biology book.

Trifleorbust · 10/11/2016 13:51

I would be very pissed off indeed, of course.

AmeliaJack · 10/11/2016 13:53

I'd be hurt and furious. Loudly.

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