have you ever still had sex with you dp either though your not getting on....

[daisey]

we arent really talking that much lately if fact we arent getting on in other areas apart from the bedroom whats that all about?!

This will probably make no sense at all:

When I get pissed off with dh I go off him sexually. Then ensues a vicious circle where I can't fancy him to have sex with him and I am still a bit cross with him....and so it goes on having no sex for ages.

Then he makes a move cos he hasn't had his leg over for so long and I only respond because it satisfies a need for me too. But I can go back to hating him outside the bedroom.

See, told you it made no sense

sorry my writings awful-i mean the other night we had a row and we didnt really speak for the whole evening and then we went to bed and had sex and still didnt talk much the next day. The thing is the sex is actually alot better then it was before

yeah thats exactly how it is for me at first we were just cold towards each other but i guess we are just satisfying a need now because its such a long time. The thing is the sex is alot better and my sex drive has shot up. Whereas when we were getting on it was the complete opposite. I wish i could just have it both ways.