I have finally told my P it is over (emotional abuse on his part since I was pregnant and one physical episode where I was bruised "unintentionally" by him and police were called). I have two DC under three and am a SAHM.
He flipped last night when I told him. First he refused to let me end it, he said we need to work through our problems. Then when I said I have given him lots of chances and he blew up saying he didn't love me anyway, told me to "fuck off, bitch" and tried to take the kids passports before storming out to his parents.
I have spoken to his dad and he is keeping him at their house for now. However... I think he could also have some underlying mental health issues (anxiety, bipolar?). I tried to raise that with him and he just said I'm trying to stitch him up as always. (He is forever thinking I'm scheming against him! )
I will get legal advice today but in the meantime, what do I do about letting him see the kids? I would rather he sees them supervised with a member of his family at the moment given his behaviour and the fact they are so young, but do I have grounds enough to request that? WWYD?
Any advice greatly received as my brain is so foggy this morning. I didn't sleep much last night for worrying about next steps!
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OneTiredMummmyyy · 02/11/2016 07:00
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