Just over a year ago I fell out with a friend. The kind people here made me realise I'd somehow got suckered into the perpetrator-victim-rescuer triangle with her, which not only made me see everything a lot clearer, but made me realise I needed to stay away from her.
Over the last year there's been a few issues with her trying to 'get back at me for being a nasty bully'. I decided to rise above it when confronted by just saying that I wasn't really sure what she wanted from me but clearly we don't work as friends so I've stepped away. Thankfully I've not lost any other friends over this, I'm hoping those responses have gone a long way toward it.
In the build up to our fall out I'd had some health issues and had gotten to the point where my hair was losing colour or falling out in chunks and had sought out treatment for anxiety.
Here I am now a lot healthier. I've been through a few autoimmune flares but the anxiety hasn't run as rampant, my hair is growing back and regained its colour. Im able now to trust other people when they ask for my help or advice that they're not playing games. I put a lot of this difference down to not suffering the stresses of that friendship so I owe you all a massive load of 
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Thank you so much