So awhile back I wrote about ex and how he was trying to ruin my reputation by telling everyone I was with holding visitation due to him denying sex. So after daily harassments I set up a day and time for us to meet, so we could hash this out. He was acting as a right muppet, like I was going to rape him at the meeting point or try and seduce him, I suspect the OW was around when he was texting this. So I reached the end of my rope and texted him what he could have in terms of visitation, I gave him two choices and he responded with which one he liked and it's been working really well, he picks up and drops off on time, he's spoiling the kids rotten, being Disney dad. So I decided to have a little bit of fun on his account, as I am this seducer and I'm waiting for my chance to pounce, so I make it a point where he doesn't see me, i open the door and stay behind, all he might see is my hand, I don't respond to his calls or texts unless necessary. He texts the most random chit, I bought Zack a new shirt. Kiss the kids goodnight/good morning, Ben ate loads of his dinner/breakfast, etc. It seems he can't cope lol. He'll send me pics of the kids to show them eating dinner, playing, or videos, I hold strong I don't respond. If I respond he'll continually text me, trying to make small talk, and just insert himself back in my life. The thing is he loves to be loved and for so long I was fighting with the OW over him. So he is craving my attention. Silence is so golden. It's early days but I'm so much happier. Well he's found his soul mate, the love of his life, lol. He never knew love till he met her......... well carry on mate. I can literally see him saying he made a mistake 5 years from now, I think my family and friends can too, as everyone has been telling me don't take him back when he does come crawling back. Nope, no chance. Anyways he was my 1st every bf, I am now 30. I spent my late teens raising his kids and then having my own kids in my late 20's, I dedicated my whole life to that man and his children and he dropped me like a sack of rice and said I did nothing for him. I have a banging body, I am pretty, so wish me luck ladies. I'm going to get a tattoo (nothing big) and an ear piercing, and start to live my life after being trampled down for so long........... 😀
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Update: withholding visitation because he won't sleep with me! As if!
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MissPathetic30 · 24/10/2016 07:58
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