You know that film where that bloke gets all obsessive about lining up the tins in the cupboard - I have a dp a bit like this. He has got into this habit of constantly shifting both big and small items around the house. Big items like sofas, tables, chairs, record players, heavy shelves full of books - you name it, he does it. He always does it when I'm out and I come back to chaos and disorientation. He does not take my views into account and does not listen if I say I preferred something as it was. He also does this with smaller items such as toys, plates, cutlery, kitchen pots and pans - he is constantly shifting the location of things. He tips out boxes of stuff and does not finish the job - leaving mess everywhere. I am so done with this. It feels disrespectful and chaotic. It does not feel homely. I feel it is controlling. I walked straight out again tonight after work as it was chaotic and he'd moved all the cupboards of the kitchen around again today. when I got back home at 10pm he had tipped my groceries out on the floor (as a punishment for me going out??) I need your help and advice please.