Hello again.
I've posted before about H and we're now living separately.
Told DC the house we've moved to is more suited to us and that H work stress/schedule means he's going to live nearer work for a time.
H is their step dad.
They see their Dad regularly, he lives in another city so at weekends.
The house in reality is smaller and less "posh" though the gardens nicer!
They are OK with though have wondered why now when H and I only married in Jan.
H drinks and in short is unreasonable in a few ways.
I hoped the separation would mean he works on drinking (as agreed) and we might be able to work things out.
It's early days but his behaviour and what he says to me already making me think this is very unlikely.
I feel so awful, we left their Dad Jan 2014 (abusive, I was long over him), married H Jan 2016 and now this.
I'm doing counselling, I see things much more clearly now about myself and relationships.
Is anyone wiser than I able to suggest an age appropriate way to explain, if it does come to a permanent separation?
Thank you for any suggestions.