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What is this guy playing at?

14 replies

Maybeitsthered · 16/10/2016 20:32

Not interested? Trying to make me jealous? Just after a drunk shag?

He was a FWB for about 6 months. I caught feelings and called it off. He agreed and said it was probably for the best, I'd broken the mold and as neither of us wanted a relationship it was for the best. This was two months ago.

We've had the occasional text since then, he went on holiday to somewhere I've been and asked for some tips/recommendations. General hi how are you stuff.

TBH it has been hard as I had fallen for him but I'm not ready for a relationship yet as I've just come out of a long term marriage and he is a committed single too.

Last night he sent me this text at 3am. Hi X, just got in, have met someone just like you, you'll love her! Hope we can always be friends wherever life takes us. He then followed it up a few minutes later with some sex chat.

I was just getting to the point where he wasn't occupying my thoughts all day and night. It's like there is a bloody bell that goes off and tells them your getting over them.

Any thoughts?

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JennyHolzersGhost · 16/10/2016 20:35

Block him.

Maybeitsthered · 16/10/2016 20:36

I want too. Just can't seem to make myself hit the button Blush

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LesisMiserable · 16/10/2016 20:42

Is he 15?

user1474320794 · 16/10/2016 20:50

Drunk text maybe

M00nUnit · 16/10/2016 20:53

What a twat. Yes he's trying to make you jealous. He's met someone else but he wants to keep you on the back-burner. Hope you meet someone else soon who is more worthy of you.

Maybeitsthered · 16/10/2016 21:00

Yes he was pissed!

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Maybeitsthered · 16/10/2016 21:01

No idea why he felt the need to tell me. And also that she'd love to meet me as he's told her all about me Hmm

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user1474320794 · 16/10/2016 21:04

I think he's making it up, why would he love you to meet her? Weird. Drunk, thinking of you and jealous

Ohyesiam · 16/10/2016 21:08

Men like him always seem to somehow sense when you are just beginning to loosen the grip they had on you, and then they pounce.
He is playing games with you.

CancelTheCheque · 16/10/2016 21:08

Could he have meant 'I just made a new friend whilst out' rather than 'I have a new girlfriend'?

carmenta · 16/10/2016 21:09

Block him. If he wanted to be with you he would be with you. The rest is bullshit game playing.

benbry · 16/10/2016 21:12

So you called it off because you fell for him? Not sure I get it.

TheNaze73 · 16/10/2016 22:28

Didn't you post this last week?

PoppyBirdOnAWire · 17/10/2016 00:14

Short term memory loss...

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