Hi all I would really appreciate to hear some opinions on this, I've been seeing a girl for about 5 months now, we've both been keeping it quite casual. She still isn't sure if she ready to bring a new man into her kids lives yet and she has a lot of other stuff going on holding her back from moving forward with the relationship at the moment. I know I have started to fall for her and from how she is with me its quite clear that she's started to develop feelings as well but seems to be fighting them. the other night whilst we were having sex she burst into tears crying and became quite inconsolable she kept coming in for a cuddle and then turning away and saying she didn't want me to see her like that, it must of lasted for about an hour until we fell asleep then the next day she said she needed a few days space to sort her head out and didn't want to talk about or explain what was going on the night before. I'm quite confused as to what this means or what I can do to resolve it and would appreciate any of your opinions on it.